Shivani talks about: The elder child feels rejected when a baby is born and can create energy of hatred towards the sibling which can stay as a sanskar even after the children grow up. Parents need to heal the rejection of the elder child.
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Meri shadi ko 5 sal ho gye h.aur mere ek 3 sal ki beti h.mere husband bat bat par gussa krte h jaise agar pen bhi na chal rha ho to gussa kr k gali nikalne lagte h.aur mujhe bahut jhagada karte h k mene 5 minutes bhi late kyon kiya unko lgta h k wife ki sari responsibility hoti h bacche ko dekhna aur unke pati k aage piche ghumna.isliye wo beti ko bhi bilkul time nhi dete.hume bahar lekar jate h ghumate h kyonki ye unko pasand hai.wo mujhe akele kahi travel nhi krne dete ghar se bahar nhi nikalne dete.even mere parents k pas bhi nhi jate dete.jab bhi mere parents pareshani me hote h jaise meri mother hospitalized hui to unke pas unko dekhne ya khana banane k liye bhi koi nhi tha to bhi wo mujhe jane ko nhi kahte aur meri unke gusse k dar se man ki bat kahne ya unse puchne ki himmat bhi nhi hoti ya mere mayke me kuch bade function hota h to ya to mana kar diya jata h aane ko.mere parents k aane par mujhse jhagda krte h unko ghumane k paise bhi unse mangne ko kahte h.me ek educated lady hu.mgr ab ghar me mera dam ghutta h.mere sas sasur hamare bich kuch nhi bolte.meri bacchi par bhi iska asar pad raha h.ab jb bhi mere husband mujhse acche se bat krte h to mera man nhi hota unse jyada bat krne ka.me unki respect nhi kar pa rahi hu.me unke dar se sab kam 100% krne ki koshish karti hu par apni iccha ya man ki bat unse share bhi nhi kr sakti.beti par bhi kabhi kabhi unka gussa nikal jata h.aur stress ki vajah se utrus me bhi problem hone lagi h.sister please help me
Me and my husband have been married for 14 years now with 2 kids. We live in a joint family with his parents as well. Whenever I disagree with him or complain about his mother or him not sharing any household responsibilities (since I am a working woman), he starts giving me silent treatment. This has been going on for few years now and every time this silent treatment lasts for a month to few months.. no amount of begging or even trying to initiate a conversation hasn't helped. For the past few months he has again shut me off and doesn't want to discuss the reasons for his behavior. No amount of family intervention has also helped. After repeated requests he just said that he is tired of my complaints or added pressure on him to share household responsibilities. And also says he's done with this and has come out of the marriage (although not legally separated).
It just shattered me and tore me apart! Counseling for myself did help me to handle the situation.. however he is not ready to come for counseling. how do I make him unload his emotional baggage and try to restart our married life again? I am waiting to hear from him for the past 1 year!! Whenever I try talking to him, he says he can't even consider Loki g at my face since he gets back all the negativity he has for me whenever he looks at me!
Recently he has found a interest in someone when he had gone to trek in Kashmir. After coming back from there he is in complete depression!! He doesn't talk, smile or even play with kids.. apparently we also found a suicide note in his cupboard written a month back!
I love him so much to the end of earth! I want to help him understand that I have started mending my ways and as well as changing myself to the better.
I rally's ant to save my marriage and get back my husbands love. I also quit my job and an excellent career to correct my married life!!Thinking of kids future I dread leaving him..
Please advice
IS IT POSSIBLE CURE THE MENTAL ILLNESS BY RAJYOG AND MEDITIONS
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