Om shanti. If you are to serve others, you must not have any attachment to a bodily being. If your intellect is drawn to material things or to human beings, it will bring you into limitation and will prevent you from the experience of the unlimited.
When there is limitation, then our intellects are drawn to listening to limited things. Take your intellect beyond the limited into the unlimited. Realize that in your unlimited form, you are a soul and your Father is incorporeal and unlimited. Remember Him in the home of all souls, beyond the physical world and you will be able to serve the world in an unlimited way.